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MORE: The Number One Reason Men Suddenly Lose Interest Until he becomes your boyfriend, remember that he’s just one of the many men who could be right for you. Why would you give your all to a man who’s holding back, and why would you decide he’s the one for you when he still hasn’t decided about you and his interest levels seem to be dropping off? MORE: 5 Things That Turn Men Off to Relationships Maybe you don’t have time to date multiple men, aren’t interested in anybody else at the moment, or the dating pool in your area is just so shallow it’s hard to find one man to date, let alone two or three. It’s not a hard and fast rule that you must date multiple men at a time.

Even if he seems like he could be “the one,” you don’t know him well enough to be sure. This is the most important thing of all to remember: you need to cultivate this single mindset for yourself, not to get a reaction out of him. The most important thing is not to commit to a man in your heart before he’s explicitly committed to you, and to keep an open mind about other men, whether you happen to be dating others at the moment or not.

This doesn’t make him a bad person, it’s not even a fault, it just means you may not be compatible.

Second, if you have no life, you’re not going to be very interesting.

These are just a few ways to start focusing on your own life instead of focusing on a man.

You may want to because it will feel like that’s the only way to “catch” him, but remember, you’re not a hunter and he’s not prey! He has to come to you of his own free will, not because you hunted him down and trapped him.

Perhaps most importantly, if you’re the one chasing him you’ll never know how he really feels about you. you’ll never know if he’s with you because he wants to be, or because it’s easier than trying to break free of your relentless grip.