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An honorable person sets the record straight, so that person can move on with their life.” ― Shannon L. Until, men learn that their actions and their friends and families reactions can create a questionable doubt about how they feel, they will forever have to deal with the drama they create for themselves.” ― Shannon L.

I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Based on that information, I would say that it’s not a lost cause. 🙂 Epilogue: I followed up a couple months later on this one to see how it panned out. Hopefully he’ll continue moving in this direction and will be more clear about when he can see you rather than leaving it open-ended. Never allow anyone to live with a false belief or unfounded hope about you. Why are these other people in your life acting like you care? They don't back up their words with actions that are not confusing or could be misinterrupted as something else. Protect your reputation and be responsible for the wrong information spread about you. Women have a difficult time letting go because men don't communicate why at the level that women require.