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09 Dec

I certainly thought he could’ve had liftoff in a very big way because he was an extraordinary figure, and the world had become ready for ambiguous sexuality or transgender experiences. I don't think The Crying Game was an exploitative experience for Jaye because none of it was gratuitous. The audience has to feel the way Fergus feels — a genuine shock. If they don't see it, they might say, "Was there one there at all? " The funny thing — we used to laugh — was that Fergus’s reaction when he sees the penis was to run to the bathroom and vomit. Just kiss me once before you go." And then, he kisses her and it’s terribly beautiful because he does love this person.

We said, "This is an Irishman." The Irish see a penis where there isn’t supposed to be one, and they go and vomit. To me, the kiss is more potent than the big shlong, if you’ll excuse the expression.

This is not an indication of a security issue such as a virus or attack.

So it looks pretty shocking in the movie but it wasn’t shocking to do. Everybody knew it was going to happen, and there was no prurience.

The shock for me was when Neil Jordan — before I’d even read a script — I had dinner with him and he said, "Do you want to do this movie? But men never guessed because men are fooled by surfaces. The doctor said, "Is there any chance you could be pregnant? Jaye said, "No, I don’t think that’s possible." The shoot was done very quickly. But I must say I had no premonition whatsoever that it would be so successful.

" Of course the thing was, you wouldn’t be allowed an erect penis [on film]. A lot of men will tell you, sadly, it isn’t always erect when it’s supposed to be [laughs], but anyway, that’s just a technicality. Hard to imagine, but that was what was so touching about it was that people really listened to Harvey Weinstein and said, "Okay we won’t tell." It’s kind of rather sweet. The title of the movie when they released it in China was, apparently, I don’t know what happened to Jaye.

Most people were just shocked at the presence of the penis, not whether or not it was aroused. I think he made a couple of movies and found that it wasn’t for him.