Dating an older man advice

02 Jan

My issue comes with him still having his profile up, and with my curiosity getting the best of me, I check almost everyday just to see when he last logged on – seems to be every few days or so.I have read what you have written on this subject and I know you said that men are slower to remove their profiles than woman – so my question is how long is reasonable to wait for him to do this before you say something or begin to feel offended by it?What You Do The one thing you shouldn’t do is verbally attack the guy or start throwing out ultimatums.If he’s hesitating because he’s concerned about commitment, this approach could scare him off.

Try not to force them but at the same time you will want to look for opportunities let him know that you need to know where you stand with him.In some cases, this could cause what he saw as a healthy, budding relationship to end abruptly.I’ve had several readers write me they argued with the man they were dating to ask if I thought they had made the right choice.Perhaps not nice or courteous but not unfair either.It’s especially bothersome if his actions suggest exclusivity even if he hasn’t declared so in words…and yet it is still acceptable in my mind for him to keep his profile up, even in this case.